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Thursday, May 16, 2013

Parents Talk

Should Dr. Kermit Gosnell Have Gotten the Death Penalty?

The Philadelphia doctor was found guilty of murdering three babies after botched late-term abortions and was given life in prison Tuesday.

A Philadelphia doctor found guilty of murdering three babies born alive in an abortion clinic serving low-income women agreed to two life sentences Tuesday, and was sentenced to a third Wednesday. Dr. Kermit Gosnell, 72, agreed to his sentences and waived his right to an appeal in order to avoid the possibility of being condemned to death. According to ABC News, prosecutors were seeking the death penalty, but because of Gosnell's advanced age it was deemed unlikely that he would live long enough for death penalty appeals which can last decades. According to Reuters, Gosnell was convicted of first-degree murder Monday after he reportedly delivered the live babies during late-term abortions and then deliberately severed their spinal cords. …

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Orono

2:09 am on Sunday, May 19, 2013

Teabaggers? Seriously? I realize you are acting only on your provided talking points but the tea party only wants to NOT use tax dollars to fund your abortions. They are hardly your biggest concern. Besides getting an actualy education, your biggest concern are with the christians.   more ›

Saturday, May 11, 2013

Olivia, Sophia and Ethan Ranked 'Top Baby Names' at Fairview Ridges

In anticipation of Mother's Day, Fairview Ridges recently released the top baby names for 2012.

Oh, baby. The biggest names at Burnsville's Fairview Ridges Hospital are also the hottest monikers in the country. Among the 2,636 babies delivered there in 2012 there were a bevy of babies named Sophia (the number one most popular name for girls in the nation for 2012), Olivia (fourth), and more than a score of Ethans (third most popular for boys).  Since 1997, the Social Security Administration has released a national list of the most popular baby names. This year, Fairview followed suit and assembled a local list, just in time for Mother's Day. The following is data culled from Fairview's maternity wing, known as the Birthplace, augmented by a little light etymology from Parenting Magazine. The top names for girls were: Emily, Aubrey …

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Have You Spoiled Your Child Rotten?

If so, a Parenting.com article says you can take steps to reverse any mistakes you've made as your kids have grown. We want your tips for how to raise empathetic, polite children.

I'm sure you've all met your fair share of spoiled children. I know I have. They don't share, they are disrespectful to adults—including their parents—and they regularly throw fits in public. My husband and I are parents to a cat, and we've been blessed with loving, respectful nieces and nephews. I remember being pleasantly surprised when my friend's four sons shook my hand, looked me in the eye and introduced themselves.  It seems in recent years, however, I'm seeing more monster children when I go to restaurants or the mall.  The good news is anyone with a difficult child can reverse any bad parenting, according to Dr. Phil, Happiestbaby.com and Parenting.com. Their tips include: Those are tips from the professionals, but I want to hear …

Rachel Powell

7:13 pm on Monday, May 20, 2013

It's a proven fact that homophobes are the most likely to be closeted gays. That's what Jimmy is trying to tell us - he's jealous he can't be in those gay festivities. Oh, and BTW Jimmy, I have two pro-gay bumper stickers on my car. Does that make me gay? Or maybe it just matters to me that people have a right to live their lives freely. If you were around during MLK's day would you be griping …   more ›

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Parents Talk: Discussing Tragedies in the Media

How do you explain incidents like the Boston Marathon bombings to your children? Share your ideas in the comments section below.

In the aftermath of the Boston bombings, many parents may be struggling to find the write words to explain such a horrific event to children. At Patch, we wanted to use this week's Parents Talk as an opportunity to provide some resources and gather advice from readers on how to talk to kids about tragedies in the media. Share your ideas on this topic in the comments section below. The Child Development Institute gives the following discussion techniques for dealing with tragedies in the media: See the full Child Development Institute article here. Unfortunately, this isn't a first-time discussion on Patch. Following the Newtown, CT massacre, and the more close-to-home shooting incident at Accent Signage in Minneapolis, readers and bloggers…

Diane Baum

1:08 pm on Friday, April 19, 2013

Exactly, Chris Mau!!! Kids live what they learn at home. If we treat kids with respect, as well as how we present the facts of life, kids will grow to become empathetic, meaning, they will care and have compassion for the world around them. If they see us cussing out different races, creeds and colors or origins, they will grow up mean, spiteful and cynical. It's all up to US adults people...who'…   more ›

Thursday, February 21, 2013

Parents Talk: My Kid's Bedroom Is a Mess—Now What?

Do you intervene or leave it to children to keep their rooms clean?

Almost any kid can make a room messy. It seems it's only a special, rare breed of child who consistently keeps a bedroom or other kid-area clean. What do you do about messy kids' rooms? Strictly enforce a cleanliness standard? Or let them learn a lesson by not getting involved? Or do you periodically do the dirty work yourself to help your kid start from a clean slate? It's "Cleanliness is next to godliness" vs. "She didn't make her bed, so let her lie in it." Which side are you on? Leave a comment below.

Penny

1:17 am on Saturday, May 18, 2013

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Thursday, February 14, 2013

Are You Being a 'Helicopter Parent'?

A new study shows that over-controlling parents can cause their college-aged children to be depressed. What sort of tasks do you preform for your student? Is there such a thing as too much?

Do you still do your college kid's laundry? Wake him or her up for class? Manage the student's schedule? Make calls to tutors? If so, a new study shows you could be doing more harm than good. According to a recent Reuters article, Holly Schiffrin from the University of Mary Washington in Virginia found so-called "helicopter parenting" negatively affected college students by undermining their need to feel independent and competent. Helicopter parenting refers to parents who hover over and micro-manage their child’s school and social lives, according to a PsychCentral.com article on Schiffrin's study. "To find parents so closely involved with their college lives, contacting their tutors and running their schedules, is something new and on …

John

11:06 pm on Thursday, April 18, 2013

The hardest thing for me is remembering that it's my daughter's life, not mine. I 100% agree with Willow's philosophy and that's what I try hard to follow. But my daughter is able to, and is doing, so many more cool things than what I did at her age. So there's this urge to become more involved in her life than I should be. I have to always remind myself that, even with a college-aged child, I'm …   more ›

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Parents Talk: Vote for Best of Mom's 18 Smartphone Rules

Blogger Janell Burley Hofmann's 18-point contract for her 13-year-old's new cellphone has gone viral. Which of her 18 rules do you love—or hate?

  One mother's list of 18 rules for her son to follow with his new smartphone has captured the attention of parents across the country since she posted it at her blog Christmas Day. Is Janell Burley Hofmann onto something? Or overdoing it? Which of the 18 rules in the contract she gave her 13-year-old son is your favorite? Take our poll then explain your choice in comments below. Or tell why if you don't disagree with her approach or don't like one of her rules.

rob_h78

11:47 am on Monday, January 14, 2013

I think kids will need an app to track all of those rules....   more ›

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Parents Talk: What's Your New Year's Resolution?

Have you resolved to have a family movie night each week? Take more time for yourself? Share your 2013 resolutions in the comments section below.

I make new resolutions every year. There's something about Jan. 1 that makes me want to start some things fresh. And usually I'm able to stick to about half of them—like giving up watermelon for the month of February or taking a nap once a week. (Wink) Try as I might, I haven't been able to convince myself that a gym is a great place to be three times a week—however, I'll give it another shot in 2013. Patch wants to know what resolutions you've made for the new year. Have you vowed to have a family movie night each week? Take a family vacation to Yellowstone National Park? Make a standing date with your partner? Or maybe you've decided to count to three before yelling at your clumsy nine-year-old for breaking yet another glass dish. Tell …

Thursday, December 27, 2012

Parents Talk

Parents Talk: Speeding Up the Adoption Process

Parents adopting children in England are to be given extra support and a "more active role" in the adoption process. Should the United States do something similar?

Most adoptive parents or those waiting to adopt, will likely tell stories of the long and sometimes difficult process they go through to bring a child home. According to BBC News, England's government is attempting to speed their own processes up and provide more support for adopting parents. Government officials want more adoptive parents to come forward to increase the number and speed of adoptions. According to the article, the number of children approved for adoption rose from 3,000 in 2010 to more than 4,000 in 2012, government figures show. But there are still about 4,000 in care waiting to be matched with prospective parents. In the article, Children's minister Edward Timpson said up to 25,000 people asked about adopting each year, …

Liam Manning

1:47 pm on Monday, March 25, 2013

Thanks for sharing all this. We've been very intrigued with the whole adoption process. I was even thinking of doing it through http://www.achildsdream.org/content/birth_parents/birth_parentscontact.htm. What would you suggest?   more ›

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Parents Talk

Parents Talk: Should You Track Your Kids with GPS?

Phone apps and other GPS devices let parents—or schools—follow a child's every movement.

Is it OK for parents to use GPS devices or phone apps to track their children? Advice columnist Amy Dickinson told a father this month she adamantly opposes such tracking: I am completely, totally and utterly opposed to installing tracking or monitoring technology on kids' devices without their knowledge. ... You cannot use technology to mitigate the work (or risks) of parenting. ... You should confirm their whereabouts the old-fashioned way—by getting to know their friends, calling other parents to verify plans, and by driving them from place to place and occasionally showing up early. But another newspaper columnist wrote this week she found a way around her own initial concerns: We were initially apprehensive about doing this; we didn’t…

Mike B.

11:03 am on Saturday, March 9, 2013

Parents who are tracking their kids by electronic devices should have their heads examined! This is parental harassment! Furthermore, the ACLU (which I normally do not agree with) should get involved on the kids' behalf. Even though they are kids, they have the right to be protected from paranoid parents, some of whom have posted above on this subject. Thank goodness I didn't have parents who …   more ›

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